Do you consciously ‘pick’ your relationships or keep suffering?

It is probably easy to accept that you pick the relationships that you find easy, great and fun…..in other words, the people that you look forward to seeing or spending time being together.  However, do you ‘pick’ the relationships that are difficult too?  Somehow it never seems like I have anything to do with selecting the pain-in-the-neck relationships, as if they just mysteriously crept into my life.  In the Law of Attraction, recognize that you are the center of all that you attract — does this mean that the friend that calls you and talks endlessly about their life’s problems is because you drew it to you???

As difficult as it is to accept it, you attract the great relationships along with the ones that you don’t really like.  “Why would I do that”, Marcie wondered. Marcie noticed that when she hung up the phone with a certain relationship, she feels less energetic than she did before the phone call, and sometimes she feels flat or a negative emotion arises.

It really isn’t a mystery about why it keeps happening to Marcie again and again. More than likely the problem is she hasn’t made the effort to consciously ”pick’ her relationships.

BEE-ing a conscious creator of your life includes picking who gets to hang out with you.  Sounds like something a person would say if they had taken the time to reflect about what they really want in their relationships, as well as, taken the time to consider BEE-ing  someone who picks their relationships.  Let’s  look at the reasons why you would do this and I think you will see why it is vital to start consciously picking your relationships.

Reasons why you would consciously pick your relationships:

1.  You are up to something in life and your business: When you have a big game to play in your life and business then the Universe seems to tempt you by offering dazzling distractions that take you away from your purpose.  The bigger the game, the closer you are to achieving your goal, the more distractions.  A person that you select to be in your life understands how important your game is and doesn’t become a distraction, they become a supporter.  You pick the people that will remind you to keep your eye on the ball and encourage you to do so.

2.  You value your own self-worth: After years of doing the work on your issues, putting forth the effort to transform, finally — your being, your life and business reflects the real you.   The people you pick in your life see the REAL you!  They validate who you have become and don’t try to remember who you were in the past.  The people you pick will bring you up energetically and expand your self-worth even more.

3.  You have to guard your treasure: You are like valuable treasure.  Protect your treasure at all times the same way that you lock your car doors, the front door to your house or leave your jewelry in a safe.  To a solid relationship there is no threat of theft of your treasure, however, don’t let every person come into your sacred space.  Guard who is allowed to come into your space.  Your sacred space is your treasure; you would pick the relationships that you see as someone you would trust with your treasure.   It is that important to pick those you trust. If someone betrays your trust, even one little time, it violates your sacred trust.  Pick people that feel the same way about each others sacred space and let the others go that violate the sanctity of trust in a relationship.

Enjoy the beautiful music that occurs when you pick your relationships and end suffering today!

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Goddess Biz Jan