When there is a disruption in your ‘home’ everyone wants to get happy, however, you may be blocked wondering –
Isn’t this upset a sign that I need to move to a new house, go to a new city, or make a change in my living partner?
What if it’s someone you can’t move away from like a spouse or one of your kids?
The Goddess Vesta reminds us that our outer world reflects our inner self. Thank you Vesta for reminding us that if something is right for me then it serves everyone around me. I remember that old saying: “if Mama ain’t happy, then ain’t nobody gonna be happy!” In other words, if something is not right for me then it impacts the people around me. The Goddess Vesta is saying that if I am not having the life I say I want, changing where or who I live with, may not be the answer!
Goddess Jan shares this story about getting happy:
“I was at a time when it seemed that my only choice in several of my primary relationships was to bring them to an end. To compound the upset, I had moved to a new city and lived there for 3 years without making any close connections with new friends and was considering another move to a new city.
While I could see that I had something to do with these relationships, it really looked to me that the problems that I was having were with the other people and that the city I was in was full of people who didn’t want to connect. My complaint in each of the relationships revolved around similar things; I felt we had lost our connection with one another and in some cases I felt pushed out or unwanted.
Fortunately, I attracted two gifted healers at this time and started doing some deep inner healing work. I discovered that these issues I had with my relationships and the place that I lived were inner projections that were coming from inside of me! I wanted to argue — NO NO NO — these thoughts cannot be coming from inside of me — in these cases it must be coming from them. However, the truth began to set me free as I owned my own inner feelings and started to allow myself to feel the feelings that I had been resisting.
“It was time for me to let go of old beliefs, contracts, and feelings — not the relationships! It required healing old wounds that were created in this lifetime and some that were brought in with my soul. The shift I needed inside of me started to change my outer world in ways that could only be seen after the healing took place. I took a leap of faith to do this healing work; I shattered old beliefs and contracts (see previous post) and then the miracles started to happen one by one. Small miracles were the biggest ones to me because they validated that my inner healing was causing my outer world to shift for the better!”
What Vesta is saying about “Mama getting happy” is about embarking on a journey of self-love and authenticity which gives new ways of being with and feeling about others. It is about connecting with our masculine AND feminine parts of ourself, as well as, inner balance and living in harmony.
Goddess Vesta and Jan confirm that the inner does reflect the outer and with the bigger picture in mind, they say to all of us — the journey to having a global planet Earth that is connected in love and harmony begins with the inner work of each person. Why not start your own healing of the Planet Earth today by healing your inner self? For more information about how you can get started, write your questions in the comment section below.